Living in the world today I feel that it is important that every human being understand the concept of true safety. This is the first Secret of successful living. We have inhabited this planet for hundreds of thousands of years struggling to overcome the odds in every situation. Yet the greatest struggle we have ever had to face was our relationship with ourselves. There is a reason for this situation. Our teachers, our parents and other authority figures in our lives did not understand how they were teaching us or even what they really were teaching us! We were born into safety, then trained out of it! Sounds ridiculous doesn't it? However, it is the truth. We learn by watching and interacting in our environment. We learn by watching Mom and Dad. Without really understanding the training process all of our "teachers" live their lives showing us how to get through life. Because we don't know any better, we replicate their actions or we react to their actions and create our own. The end result of this childhood training program are what are called Core Beliefs. From them we develop coping mechanisms, the automatic reactions that occur when life happens. Where do you think you learned how to do relationships? Where did you learn your belief in your God? Who taught you about your hobbies, your career? Why do you live where and how you do? What about your health? All of these questions and many more can be answered by looking back at the lessons of your childhood! What is most important and the reason I have written the books available on this site is that i want you to understand that even though you may have learned some beliefs as children that may be causing undesirable effects in your adult life, there is hope. You see, the human mind functions in the same manner as a very powerful computer. Like a computer, the programs can be changed. It does not requires many years of therapy. It may require outside help, but it mostly requires a recognition that change is required and desired, then action being taken to eliminate the old pattern. Sound far fetched or fantastic? Not at all. It is quite simple. All it takes is time and practice. Come on aboard and read on. Your life is changeable. You have before you the opportunity to take control of your life and start making changes that are effe ctive and permanent. How do I know? Have a look at my personal page. I have been through it and survived.